Ordinary Homeschool Days – Monday Morning

It’s Monday morning. I poured my first cup of coffee and checked email, then Facebook. Three different moms were complaining (in a smart and witty way of course) about the painful Monday morning rush to get their kids to school.

I smiled to myself just a little. I don’t mind Mondays at all.

I’m not trying to be excessively happy or annoyingly  chipper.  No one has ever called me chipper.  But, honestly? Monday mornings are luxurious compared to what they were when my kids went to school. I think it’s funny that people assume that my life is more difficult because my kids are home. People assume that homeschooling is grueling torture that only a self-sacrificing, pain-loving mother would choose.

I’m quiet selfish and avoid pain as a rule.

I didn’t even set my alarm last night. How’s that for luxury? I woke up when I was done sleeping (around 7:30). My girls woke up when they were ready and did their own thing. The Adventurer immediately started writing, the Butterfly made herself some breakfast and watched a few episodes of How It’s Made.  The Princess (soon to be 6) slept in.

The typical day for me no longer includes dragging anyone to the bus stop. It doesn’t requires me to wrestle a teen out of bed early. I don’t have homework fights at night. I occasionally have a math argument, but it’s nothing I can’t handle.

It’s not always peaceful here, of course. Sometimes it’s loud and terrifying.

So far today (it’s still early) there was reading and writing. There was perfume making. We talked about “perfumery concepts” and how to mix top notes, base notes and heart notes to create a unique fragrance. We talked about where scented oils come from. They sniffed at least 15 different designer perfumes and then created their own from a kit.

Ready to make perfume.

Today, I was learning along with them.

When they were done creating, the younger ones went off to check How It’s Made for an episode about making perfume and make-up. The Adventurer went to work on character sketches for her screen play. It’s a short film, a parody of Life of Pi.

And the cats are busy too.

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There will be more learning today. And there will be time with friends. I’ll have to cook and clean and do some of the things I dread.

Still, I think I love Mondays.

About Amy

Professional freelance writer. Homeschool mom of three girls. Introvert and rebel. Life learner. Coffee addict.

  • http://jdeneen.com/ Julie DeNeen

    Okay. That sounds rather nice at your house. How come I don’t imagine my house would have the same feeling to it? Maybe my kids are too young or I’m too impatient or…I’m not sure what else! LOL

  • http://www.facebook.com/TToombs08 Terrye Toombs

    I have heard from so many homeschool moms that life is more relaxed than having to shove kids out the door to conform to other people’s schedules. I homeschooled Collin a bit in Montana, and he actually did better than at his school. I opted to send him to school in Arizona because they have the speech and OT therapist daily that he desperately needs. And he’s in a class with other special needs classes so he can learn social skills. But, I think I would happily homeschool my little monster if he didn’t have so many other requirements. :)

  • http://janinehuldie.com/ Janine Huldie

    I am with Julie and your house sounds so nice compared to my crazy house right now. I mean we aren’t even really school age (with the exception of Emma going to pre-school for 2 1/2 hours) and still my house is anything but insane on even a good day, lol!! Great job and loved hearing more about your homeschooling adventures here :)

  • http://amylandisman.com/ Amy

    Oh, it’s a totally different story when you have kids under 5! The chaos was so intense back then that I didn’t think I was going to survive. And mornings are the quiet time around here…around 4 is when things get a little crazy. But I’m not a morning person, so it works great for me. :)

  • http://amylandisman.com/ Amy

    It really was so hard for me to get them to school because they didn’t want to go. My middle daughter would lock herself in the bathroom, pretend she couldn’t move her legs, make herself throw up…she really developed her acting skills to the point that I had no idea if she was messing with me! And my little one would cry and cry and rip my heart out! I’m glad that homeschooling worked out well for you when you tried it and I’m so happy that you found a good school situation for Collin now! I know how tricky it can be (at least in our state) to get the services that he needs. I have a friend who has to fight with the school district every single year just to get her sons basic needs met.

  • http://amylandisman.com/ Amy

    It may be the ages of the kids – and my kids are pretty mellow in the morning! But taking away all of my stress in the morning makes it more peaceful because I’m not running around trying to make breakfast and pack lunch and get everyone dressed and walk the dog and feed the cats…without the pressure it’s kind of easier to be patient. It’s not perfect and not always like this. We definitely have our tough days, but not as often as we used to!

  • http://twitter.com/OhBoy_Mom Emily Cappo

    I love getting these glimpses into your homeschooling approach…it’s so different from where I stand, but I so respect and admire everything you are doing. I have 3 kids attending 3 different schools right now…my younger 2 are in the local public school (1 in elementary and 1 in middle school) and my oldest is at a Catholic high school. My mornings should be crazy but for some reason we’ve finally figured it out. Occasionally I have to wake someone up, but other than that, everyone knows what they have to do and when they have to do it. My husband is usually around in the mornings too (his office is nearby) so that helps too. Still, I’d LOVE to not have to set my alarm…I’m definitely not a morning person either.

  • Melanie Chisnall

    You know, the more I read your posts…the more I’m thinking about home schooling my kids one day – when I have them. Just working from home has already taken off so much stress and anxiety. Okay, so we don’t have that second income and yes, that’s not fun – but, I’m getting there. My only concern would be social interaction, because I’m quite shy – that would mean making lots more friends with moms who have kids in similar set ups. Hopefully there are a lot more when that day comes…next year, or 3 years from now. So glad your homeschooling is working out for you all…I love reading about it :)

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